Changed by a Handshake

The Man Who Changed Dwayne Johnson’s Life With A Handshake

“I’ll never forget that shake,” Johnson says. “He wouldn’t let it go.”

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From the Huffington Post/01/18/2016 07:26 am ET/Lisa Capretto

It’s hard to picture Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson as anything other than a charming, genuine, all-around great guy, but back when he was in high school, the pro-wrestler-turned-movie-star says he was a “punk kid,” just like so many others.

As Johnson tells “Oprah’s Master Class,” his troubled teen years went beyond harmless angst-ridden antics. “When I was 16 years old, that was the last time that I was arrested,” he says. “At that time, we were at an all-time low, I think, with our family.”

The family had recently moved to Pennsylvania, and Johnson indeed stuck out among the rest of his new classmates.

“I am already a pretty big boy: 6-foot-4; 220, maybe [2]25 pounds,” Johnson says. “I had a very bad moustache. I had a chip on my shoulder, fresh into this new high school in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania.”

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Even in high school, Dwayne Johnson looked more like an adult man (with “a very bad moustache”) than a teen student.

One day in school, Johnson had to use to restroom, but decided that the one used by the other young guys was too foul. So, he waltzed into the teacher’s lounge and used the bathroom that was supposed to be off-limits to students.

“A teacher comes in. His name is Jody Cwik. Tough guy. He says, ‘Hey. You can’t be in here,” Johnson recalls. “I kind of pause, look over my shoulder. ‘OK. I’ll leave when I’m done.’ And I continued to wash my hands.”

When he finished, Johnson gave Cwik a pointed look as he left the lounge.

“He was fuming,” Johnson says.

Via OWN
Jody Cwik was a teacher and football coach at Freedom High School in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, where one of the lives he changed was Dwayne Johnson’s.

Johnson got home that evening and started to really think about his act of defiance.

“I felt bad,” he says. “I just felt bad.”

So, the next day at school, Johnson found Cwik and offered an apology.

“I said, ‘I just want to apologize for how I acted yesterday. And I’m sorry.’ And I stuck my hand out,” Johnson says. “He looked at my hand, looked at me, looked at my hand again. And he shook my hand.

“I’ll never forget that shake,” Johnson continues. “He wouldn’t let it go.”

Then, Cwik finally spoke.

“He said, ‘I want you to do something for me… I want you to come out and play football for me,'” Johnson says.

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When he first started playing football in high school, Dwyane Johnson had no idea what kind of impact it would have on other parts of his life.

Figuring he’d give it a shot, Johnson agreed. Cwik was the school’s head football coach, but he soon became so much more than that to the once-troubled teen. “He became a father figure to me, and a mentor,” Johnson says.

As Johnson fell in love with football, many other areas of his life began to improve as well.

“My grades got better, and I started getting recruited from every college across the country,” he says. “My thought process started to change. That’s when I started thinking about goals and what I wanted to accomplish.”

And it all began with that handshake from the late Jody Cwik.

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Jody Cwik passed away in 2006, but he left a beautiful legacy that lives on through his former students and football players.

“I love that man. I’ll never forget the impact that he had on my life,” Johnson says. “My takeaway from that amazing relationship that I had was the empathy that he had for a punk kid who treated him so rudely and disrespectfully. He looked past that BS and said, ‘I believe in you and I want to turn you around.'”

It’s a philosophy that Johnson had applied in his own work with children today.

“Oftentimes, when I see kids and they have been labeled ‘oh, they’re punk kids’ — true. But there’s good in them. We’ve got to see that potential,” he says. “And I enjoy that today, seeing the potential in kids, just like [Cwik] did… So, thank you, Jody. Thank you, buddy.”

 

A Lesson in Patience

Good News Story from the KKBN Morning Show

A Reminder for all of Us!

She Got Lesson in Patience From Young Target Employee Named Ishmael

by Good News Network

target employee-ishmael-Sarah Owen Bigler Photo via Sarah Owen Bigler, Facebook

Sarah Owen Bigler hoped to be in and out of the Target store quickly.

With a toddler suddenly fussing in the cart and a young daughter in tow, she found a line with just one person it. But her pace slowed quickly and she became slightly annoyed when she saw the elderly woman ahead of her who was slowly counting change to pay for her items–one by one separately.

“Part of me… was frustrated with this woman and the inconvenience she had placed on me, but then I watched the young employee with this woman. I watched him help her count her change, ever so tenderly taking it from her shaking hands. I listened to him repeatedly saying ‘yes, ma’am’ to her. Never once did this employee huff, gruff or roll his eyes. He was nothing but patient and kind,” recalled Sarah in a Facebook post Wednesday.

Then, she noticed her daughter, Eloise, who was watching, too.

“I realized I hadn’t been inconvenienced at all. That my daughter was instead witnessing kindness and patience and being taught this valuable lesson by a complete stranger; furthermore, I realized that I too needed a refresher on this lesson.”

She snapped a photo on her phone to help bring praise and credit to the ever-patient employee, who had actually been working at the Glendale, Indiana store for only a few days.

“When the woman was finished, the employee began ringing up my items and thanked me for my patience. I then thanked him for teaching us patience and kindness by his treatment of that elderly woman. And although my timeline for target was askew, when Ishmael was finished I pushed my cart through the store trying to find the manager. I wanted her to know of the employee’s, kindness and patience, and how much it meant to me. After tracking her down and sharing the story with her, we left Target with a cart full of consumable items, but, what is more, a heart full of gratitude for such an invaluable lesson.”

Ishmael’s mother came to see him interviewed by a local news station, after Sarah’s photo was picked up by the media and shared thousands of times on Facebook. She asked him what he learned from the experience. “He said hopefully he will inspire others to be kind and treat everybody like you would want to be treated.”

“I felt very proud that this young father was being acknowledge for his outstanding customer service and positive energy in the workplace,” wrote mom Amiee Smith Gilbert on Facebook. “I have always tried my best to raise my children to respect everyone no matter their race, age or gender.”

Target has said he will be receiving a gift for his outstanding customer service.

Story by Good News Network.